I was talking to my teacher about a tough situation I was experiencing with my wife at the time. I felt like she was being quite difficult and some of her actions did not work for us in terms of our being married. He responded by saying that I could control this with the Nam. (Nam, meaning om vibration, sound and light.) I knew he was saying that God would mold both her and myself in such a way that the situation would be magically taken care of if I stepped up my meditations. I got it intellectually, but at the same time, I wondered if it was true. Honestly during that paticular marriage, I don’t think I stepped up my meditations enough to experience what he was talking about, but the conversation always remained in my mind.
Years later I had a meeting with someone who from all my experience I knew was going to be quite difficult. She had already stated her position and it was totally against what I thought was best for all parties. In the meatime, I had been stepping up my spiritual way of life in the previous weeks meditating more, repeating my mantra more, and flooding my mind with the spiritual, by way of movies and uplifting material. I was doing this for what seemed to be unrelated reasons. The day of the meeting, I was early so I meditated in my truck. To my surpise the person I had the meeting with changed her position totally, saying “whatever you think is best” in the most peaceful way, and all worked out wonderfully. It reminded me of how other times during periods of high spirituality, the people in my world would miraculously change their position or ways of acting and being, to fit in just the right way that was needed at the time.
Craig Kimbrough for Positive Guru Blog
When you change your frequency and alter your own vibration you control yourself – People and Situations respond in accordance to YOU – Its the old time saying when you walk in to a room and Light it UP! You are the magnet that will draw or repel what is already inside of you…. not sure about control of another human being with light as I accept everyone as they come with free will and all that jazz – be it good, bad or difficult!
I DO know that when we meditate we release such powerful energies and fully control ourselves, how we go on to communicate with others changes the outcomes…
Often times when we identify a ‘difficult’ person or situation – the resolution and ease comes swiftly when we look inwards into ourselves! I ask myself….’what is the resistance within me that see’s others as being difficult and where can be compassionate as to how/why they are like this in the first place…IF…sometimes its best to just smile and wave or walk away’
Thanks for sharing this post….you gave me a moment to stop and think today whilst stuck in Lockdown UK.
Hello Jill. I love what you have shared on this subject. I was wondering if people would get what I was trying to convey and was somewhat concerned about the way the post was written. I even went back to change some of the wording an hour or so after posting.
I do agree it sounds like a bit much when talking about the idea of controling another person. And in no way would I ever want to control another human being, and at the same time I did want to see a different outcome, I must admit. My teacher would often speak in basic terms to convey deep meanings, and leave it to us to figure out just what he meant. From other conversations with him and just being around him I knew he pretty much meant the same as what you are saying. He meant that when we raise our vibration, our whole environment changes, including the people in it. If we are uplifted, so are our loved ones, just by being in our orbit. They respond to who we are and our vibration and way of being. It is very much like what you were saying about lighting the whole room up.
Another way of looking at the situation is from a standpoint of there being many different possibilities we can enter based on who we are and our vibration in a given moment. There may be one where the person acts one way, and another where they act a totally different way. Both may be in existense in the realm of possibilities at the same time. Who we are at a given time can determine which possible outcome we actually experience with that person. In each situation, the person has free will and is different based on who we are, like the magnet actracting. We, the magnet, determine which James or Susan comes our way. We can experience or attract happy James or angry James, understanding Susan or not so understanding Susan. And both may be in fourth dimensional existense at the sametime, waiting on us based on who we are at a given moment. Thank you so much for reading and sharing, and giving me a moment to stop and think. Peace and Blessings.